This past Friday I went with my best friend Kate to look for her wedding dress – so fun! The verdict is still out between two different dresses but both are beautiful and I’m sure she’ll pick the perfect one :) The day inspired me to write a quick post about shopping for your wedding dress. For those still looking for a dress or who haven’t started yet, here are a few suggestions to make the most out of your search and your time–

First, look through magazines and online to find styles that you like. When you get to a store (check out more than one, for the best variety and best pricing), try on styles that you’ve pre-chosen as well as some that you weren’t considering. Many times brides will think they are going to love a certain style, but feel completely different after trying it on. So try on several styles to determine which is the most flattering and the most comfortable for you, and from there narrow down to more specific styles and colors (there’s a whole broad range of whites, champagnes and ivories!).

The sales consultants are there to help you find styles you like and also to bring in other styles that you might not have considered. But just because they bring you something doesn’t mean you have to try it on. Be honest if you really dislike something they suggest; you don’t want them to keep bringing you mermaid style dresses if it’s not “you”. Most importantly, be honest and upfront about the price range you want to stay in. They’ll steer you towards styles and designers you can afford and will know of any “off the rack” specials they can offer that will be able to be brought down into your price range. You don’t want to try on something and fall in love with it, only to find out it costs triple what you were hoping to spend!

Don’t waste time on a dress you’re iffy about. If you’re indifferent, take it off and go on to the next one. You’ll know when you’ve found one you love. You’ll want to stay in it, and you’ll keep going back to try it on again after you’ve tried on others. Bonus if your mom cries instantly upon seeing you in it – that’s always a good sign :)

Last but not least, come prepared! Wear a strapless bra and underwear you don’t mind everyone else seeing you in. Some bridal shops have “open” dressing rooms, so be ready for the fact that you may be getting undressed in front of strangers. Bring heels if you want the “full effect” and try on a veil with the dresses that are true contenders – it finalizes the Bride Look. Most importantly, have fun! There are zillions of dresses in all styles, sizes and prices, and Your Perfect Dress is out there.

A note to Kate, I can’t wait to see which dress you choose! And I can’t wait to be your MOH(io). 390 days to go!